Praying at graves and the conditions of intercession

 

I was in a converstation with a follower of the sufi way of islam and that person asked me what did i think about praying at the graves, or about religious scholars interceding during the day of judgement. i told that person that praying to someones grave is shirk and no one can interceed except the prophet. and i wanted to know what was the ruling of the people of knowledge on this matter and where can i look for proof ?

Praise be to Allaah.
 

 

1 – The issue of praying at graves 

Praying at graves is of two types: 

The first type is praying to the occupant of the grave.
This is major shirk which puts a person beyond the pale of Islam, because
prayer is an act of worship, and it is not permissible to do any act of
worship to anyone other than Allaah. Allaah says (interpretation of the
meaning): 

“Worship Allaah and join none with Him (in worship)”

[al-Nisa’ 4:36] 

“Verily, Allaah forgives not (the sin of) setting up
partners (in worship) with Him, but He forgives whom He wills, sins other
than that, and whoever sets up partners in worship with Allaah, has indeed
strayed far away”

[al-Nisa’ 4:116] 

The second type is praying to Allaah in the graveyard.
This covers a number of issues: 

1 – Praying the funeral (janaazah) prayer at the graveside,
which is permissible. 

Example: if a person dies and you are not able to offer the
funeral prayer for him in the mosque, then it is permissible for you to
offer the prayer for him after he is buried. 

The evidence for this is that this is what the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did. It was narrated from Abu
Hurayrah that a black man or a black woman used to clean the mosque, and he
(or she) died. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
asked about him and they said, “He died.” He said, “Why did you not tell me?
Show me to his grave (or her grave).” So he went to the grave and offered
the funeral prayer. (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 458; Muslim, 956). 

2 – Praying the funeral prayer in the graveyard, which is
permissible 

Example: a person dies and you are not able to offer the
funeral prayer for him in the mosque, so you go to the graveyard and offer
the prayer there before he is buried. 

Shaykh ‘Abd al-Azeez ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him)
said: “It is permissible to offer the funeral prayer for the deceased inside
the graveyard just as it is permissible to offer the funeral prayer for him
after he is buried, because it was proven that a woman used to clean the
mosque and she died. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) asked about her and they said, ‘She died.’ He said, ‘Why did you not
tell me? Show me to her grave.’ So they showed him and he offered the prayer
for her, then he said, ‘These graves are filled with darkness for their
occupants, but Allaah illuminates them by my prayer over them.’” (Narrated
by Muslim, 956.)

From Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah, 8/392 

3 – Praying in the graveyard – apart
from the funeral (janaazah) prayer – this prayer is invalid and does not
count, whether it is an obligatory prayer or a naafil prayer. 

The evidence for that is as follows: 

(i)               
The Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “All the earth is a mosque apart from
the graveyards and bathrooms.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 317; Ibn Maajah,
745; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah, 606).

(ii)             
The Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “May Allaah curse the Jews and the
Christians, for they have taken the graves of their Prophets as places of
worship.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 435; Muslim, 529).

(iii)           
Praying in graveyards may be a
means that leads to worshipping the graves, or to imitating those who
worship graves. Hence, because the kaafirs used to prostrate to the sun as
it was rising and setting, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon him) forbade us to pray when the sun is rising or setting, lest that
be taken as a means that leads to worshipping the sun instead of Allaah, or
to resembling the kuffaar. 

4 – Praying towards the graveyard, which is haraam, according
to the correct opinion. 

Example: you pray with a graveyard or grave in the direction
of your qiblah, but you are not praying in the graveyard, rather you are
praying on some other ground that is close to the graveyard, with no wall or
barrier between you and it. 

The evidence for this being haraam: 

(i)               
It was narrated that Abu
Marthad al-Ghanawi said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not sit on graves, or pray towards them.”
(Narrated by Muslim, 972). This indicates that it is haraam to pray
towards graveyards or towards graves or towards a single grave.

(ii)             
The reason why it is not
allowed to pray towards a graveyard is the same as the reason why it is not
allowed to pray towards a grave. So long as a person is facing towards the
grave or graveyard in such a way that it may be said that he is praying
towards it, then this comes under the prohibition, and if it comes under the
prohibition then it is not valid, because the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Do not pray …” The prohibition here
is on praying, so if a person prays towards a grave, he is combining
obedience and disobedience, and it is not possible to draw closer to Allaah
in such a manner. 

Note: If there is a wall between you and the graveyard, then
the basic principle is that it is acceptable to pray in this case and it is
not prohibited. Similarly, if there is a street or a considerable distance
which would mean that you cannot be regarded as praying towards the graves,
then this is acceptable. And Allaah knows best.  

See al-Mughni, 1/403; al-Sharh al-Mumti’ by Ibn
‘Uthaymeen, 2/232. 

2 – The issue of intercession 

You were mistaken when
you said that no one will intercede on the Day of Resurrection except the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Rather the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) will intercede and so will
others among the believers. See Question no. 11931. 

But we will add here an issue that was not mentioned there,
which is that there are conditions attached to intercession: 

1 – Permission must be granted by Allaah to the intercessor
to intercede.

2 – Allaah must approve of the one for whom intercession is
to be made. 

The evidence for these two conditions is the verses in which
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 

“And there are many angels in the heavens, whose
intercession will avail nothing except after Allaah has given leave for whom
He wills and is pleased with”

[al-Najm 53:26] 

“and they cannot intercede except for him with whom He is
pleased”

[al-Anbiya’ 21:28] 

As for the imaginary intercession which the idol-worshippers
think their gods perform for them, this is an invalid intercession, for
Allaah does not permit intercession unless He is pleased both with the
intercessor and those for whom intercession is made.  

See al-Qawl al-Mufeed Sharh Kitaab al-Tawheed by
Shaykh Muhammad ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him), p. 336-337. 

The fact that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and the believers will intercede does not justify asking them to intercede, as some people do when they ask the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to intercede for them even after his death.